funeral plans.
It's something you have to do.
Mom and Dad picked the music they want.
I'll help Dad with the readings.
Dad was stuck on the eulogy.
Didn't say much about it.
I asked,
"Dad, if you could have anyone, anyone at all
do the eulogy, who would you choose?"
"You."
*blink blink*
"Ok, who would be your second choice?"
Didn't see that one coming.
I really didn't.
I have no doubt I can get up there
and DO it.
Give me an audience and I'm a happy girl.
It's the message I'm worried about.
How do I make sure I
Say the right things.
Speak about the right people.
Touch on all I need to touch upon.
This is what I think about while driving to work.
This is what I think about while I'm not falling asleep.
This is what I think about.....a lot.
My friend Gina said....write.
Write a lot. Over write, then you
can cut, edit, whatever, just write.
I can do this.
6 comments:
i'm sure you will write it with elegance, grace & do your mother proud.
xxoo
cyn
When my parents passed, each of us kids got up and said something special - very ad-lib. There were several others in the congregation that stepped up as well which made it even more special. As a result, no one person felt the pressure to carry the day. You will find a strength you didn't think was there when the time comes. Plans are good. Preparation is helpful.
You only have to be you Kerry, and it will be more than enough. I just went to a funeral where the 16 year old and 15 year old grandchildren spoke and they were amazing. Who even knew it was in them all along? And you will find it in you too, there's no doubt in my mind.
I am sorry you have to think about this. When you are driving to work or standing in the shower or not sleeping, start talking. Not that you are writing something that has to fit in a box. Just start talking about what is in your heart when you think about your mom. You will find your answers in there. Listen to your heart, let it lead you. Then follow it. Much love my friend.
The angels that surround you, your mother and father will inspire you. Much love Kerry, always thinking of you and your family.
xxoo
Alana
The heart always shines through. Listen to it and you can speak the truth.
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